JB Woman Jailed For Killing Boyfriend Who Threatened Her With Knife For Refusing Sex
The 22-year-old was only 19 when she fought back in fear after her boyfriend, aged 29, threatened her with a knife for refusing sex.
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A 22-year-old woman who fatally stabbed her boyfriend after he threatened her with a knife when she refused to have sex has been sentenced to six years and six months in prison by the Johor Bahru High Court
She was initially charged with murder under Section 302 of the Penal Code, which carries the death penalty.
However, after representations by her lawyer, Farhan Read, the prosecution, led by Deputy Public Prosecutor Juliana Jaffar, agreed to reduce the charge to culpable homicide not amounting to murder under Section 304.
The accused pleaded guilty to the reduced charge.
Judge Kan Weng Hin, in his written judgment, said the case illustrated the devastating consequences of failing to respect consent in a relationship.
"The refusal to accept 'no' as an answer in a relationship can be deadly and devastating," he said.
According to court documents, the incident took place on the night of 20 September 2022 at a hotel near Jalan Austin Heights in Johor Bahru, where the couple, who had been together for about a year, had checked in earlier that day.
That night, the man demanded sex.
The accused, who was then 19, refused, explaining that she was on her menstrual period. Her refusal angered the 29-year-old, and he responded by threatening her with a knife.
Fearing for her safety, she tried to wrestle the weapon away.
In the struggle that followed, the knife pierced his chest more than once.
When he collapsed, she panicked and immediately called her mother for help. Her mother and stepfather arrived shortly after and, upon discovering the man's body, contacted the police.
She was arrested that night.
In his decision, Judge Kan acknowledged that while the act could not go unpunished, the circumstances surrounding it warranted compassion
"At the young age of 19, she had killed her boyfriend in a struggle over his demand for sex," he said, noting that she had cried uncontrollably during the hearing and could not bear to look at the crime scene photographs.
"She is obviously still traumatised by the incident. Forever she will carry the nightmare of that night with her."
The judge said the court must also consider her youth and the principle of tempering justice with mercy for young offenders.
"What is to be gained by extracting a pound of flesh when young offenders are subjected to long incarceration?" he said, referencing Shakespeare's 'Merchant of Venice'.
"A long incarceration would not only make assimilation harder when the young offender is released but would compound the already overcrowded situation in prison."
The judge also ordered that the woman's identity be protected to allow her a chance at rebuilding her life once she completes her sentence
In his written judgment, he said the decision was made to shield her from public stigma and allow her to reintegrate into society.
"In view of the age of the accused and the long-lasting impact of social media, the name of the accused has been abbreviated. It is hoped that by doing so, the accused will have a chance to assimilate into society and live a normal life after she has served her sentence.
"It is important that her offspring, if any, will not be stigmatised. After all, once she has paid the price by serving her sentence, she should be allowed to fade back into society and not be subjected to public scrutiny," he said.
Both the prosecution and the defence have filed appeals against the decision.

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