New Trend In China: Children Buy Groceries, Cook & Clean While Parents Relax & Watch TV

It's a growing trend called 'reverse parenting'.

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In some homes in China, children are no longer just learning from their parents, they're leading the way

A growing number of young Chinese children are taking on household responsibilities, from cooking and cleaning to even planning holidays.

The trend, known as 'reverse parenting', has sparked fascination online and drawn attention to shifting family dynamics in modern Asian households.

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Yuanyuan, a primary school student from Liaoning province, has become something of a poster child for this trend

Documenting his life with a clip-on camera, he's gained nearly a million followers on Chinese social media.

He starts his mornings walking neighbours' dogs for small change, calls his mum after school to ask what she fancies for dinner, and shops for groceries, haggling with street vendors along the way.

At home, he prepares elaborate meals like braised prawns and pork ribs while his mother unwinds in front of the TV.

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The phenomenon isn't limited to cooking. Some children manage their family's travel arrangements.

Child social worker Zhang Jianyong said this trend is pushing boundaries.

"Parents showing a bit of 'weakness' can inspire kids to take more responsibility and be more proactive," Zhang said to South China Morning Post.

However, the trend also has its fair share of critics.

"In this family, the kid is the responsible parent, and the parents are the ones acting like children," one comment remarked. 

On platforms like Weibo, posts tagged with related hashtags have racked up over 230 million views — a clear sign that reverse parenting, once a novelty, is now part of a wider cultural conversation.

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