“Am I Running A Charity?” — Bride Slammed For Berating Guest Over Wedding Ang Pow
She complained that a colleague's HKD800 (RM456) wedding gift failed to cover even the cost of their meal.
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A newlywed bride in Hong Kong has sparked a heated online debate after publicly venting her frustration over the amount of money a guest gifted in a traditional red packet
The bride's social media outburst, which questioned the guest's financial contribution relative to the cost of the wedding banquet, has drawn significant criticism from netizens who labelled her expectations as entitled.
According to reports from Sin Chew Daily and HK01, the bride had hosted her wedding reception at a hotel where the cost per head was HKD1,500 (RM855).
She was reportedly dismayed to find that one of her colleagues who attended the event provided a red packet containing only HKD800 (RM456). This resulted in a shortfall of approximately HKD700 (RM399) per seat, a deficit the bride claimed she was forced to "subsidise".
The bride's online post did not mince words, as she reportedly asked if she was "running a charity" by buying the guest a meal
She further suggested that the colleague should have declined the invitation if they could not afford to cover the cost of their seat.
In a move that particularly riled commenters, she even proposed that future weddings should implement a "minimum spend" requirement for all attendees to ensure the hosts do not lose money.
However, netizens quickly turned the tables on the bride
Many commenters argued that a wedding is a celebration of a union rather than a profit-making venture or a crowdfunding exercise. Comments pointed out that if the couple could not personally afford the HKD1,500 (RM855) per head venue, they should not have booked such an expensive location in the first place.
Others took issue with the bride's relationship with her guests, noting that if she felt the need to ask "Am I very close to you?", she likely should not have extended the invitation at all. Some users recommended that couples opt for simpler gatherings with genuine loved ones rather than high-stakes events that rely on guests to cover the costs.


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