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<h2>I&#8217;ve been told that I&#8217;m fat all my life. </p>
<p>Not exactly disagreeing with that, but being harshly judged for your body size is just downright demotivating.</h2>
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<p><p>There is, however, a silver lining to this dark cloud.&nbsp;</p>
<p>Years of being body shamed helped me realise that while we can&#8217;t always change people&#8217;s perceptions and thoughts, we can change our reactions to it.&nbsp;</p>
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<h2>If you can relate to all this talk of being body shamed, here are some ways to deal with it:</h2>
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[NANDINI SAYS] What To Do When Someone Body Shames You

I've been told that I'm fat all my life.

Not exactly disagreeing with that, but being harshly judged for your body size is just downright demotivating.

If you can relate to all this talk of being body shamed, here are some ways to deal with it:

More videos on skin colour, Deepavali, and Tinder in my exaggerated Indian/Malaysian accent:

Read more trending stories on SAYS

You may be interested in:

[NANDINI SAYS] What To Do When Someone Body Shames You

I've been told that I'm fat all my life. Not exactly disagreeing with that, but being harshly judged for your body size is just downright demotivating.

If you can relate to all this talk of being body shamed, here are some ways to deal with it:

More videos on skin colour, Deepavali, and Tinder in my exaggerated Indian/Malaysian accent:

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Read more trending stories on SAYS

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I've been told that I'm fat all my life.

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